Things I learnt (and, unlearnt) in my 30s…

I hit my early 30s and I realized it’s time to start living a smarter, more fulfilling life. This definitely does not end the stress the anxiety. Those come in when you have bills to pay. In your 30s, it’s important to step back and get a little perspective through some good old-fashioned reflection (sometimes …

Being Outspoken – A Curse or a Boon?

Being outspoken has been both a boon and a curse for me. I cannot speak enough about all the judgments and outspoken racism that I have gone through. -Thanks to being outspoken, you aren’t afraid to say when you’re upset, angry or disappointed, which means your relationships with loved ones are always very honest and open. …

The story behind the big fat bong wedding…

I am no Chetan Bhagat and my story is not two states. Same state, two fat bongs but interesting. P.S: Chetan Bhagat is trash by the way. I was almost obsessively preoccupied with the idea that there is someone who could see you—the real you—and love you unconditionally. I wrote pages and pages filled with …